Why You Should Divorce If The Sex Is Bad

If you’re not happy in bed, you’re probably not happy in the relationship either.  Here, we explain why you should divorce if the sex is bad.

Would you divorce if the sex was bad? Tell us in the comments!

Intimacy is a very important part of any relationship, especially long-term ones.

If you're not having a good time in the bedroom, it usually means you're unable to efficiently communicate with your partner.

It also depends on the reasons why it’s bad…

Some women feel threatened when doing it with their partner and that makes it almost impossible for them to get in the right mindset to reach climax.

It also makes it even more difficult to express their needs to their partner because they are too nervous to.

Some women just feel bored during intimacy with their partner.

This can be an even trickier one because it can still be boring even after communicating with your partner.

If this is the case, that can mean you two are just not a good pair.

Also, some women just feel embarrassed to tell their partner that they are boring in bed.

If you feel any of these ways with your partner during sex, and communication just isn't working, you do have an option B, which is couples therapy.

The thing about couples therapy is that it doesn't always help and it can be extremely costly.

Intimacy in your relationship not only expresses that you’re close with your partner, but also that you’re comfortable with them.

If your relationship is lacking in comfort, it's definitely grounds for splitting up.

There is the debate about trying to make it work if you have children. However, the thing about that is, if you are unhappy in a relationship, you can project that onto the children as well, so it’s still very important to have good intimacy in a relationship.

In other words, without a healthy sex life in your marriage, it’s possible that you two are not even compatible.