Things You’re Forgetting About When Performing Oral

Going down on someone and having someone go down on  is nothing short of fantastic. It's sexy. It's intimate. But just because you're a fan of the act doesn't mean you're necessarily good at it. We all tend to pat ourselves on the shoulder for accomplishments that are hardly accomplishments, and when it comes to performing oral, it's really no different. But the truth is, there's a good chance you're overlooking some important steps that ought to be taken while giving head. Keep reading to find out about the things you're forgetting about when performing oral.

Going down. When you’re going down on someone, it doesn’t hurt to know what you’re doing. Do you want to be know for how good you give head? Not necessarily. But covering your bases in all walks of life is always helpful.

Hands. A person’s genitals aren’t the only sensitive part on their bodies. Just because your mouth is busy doesn’t mean your hands can’t go off exploring. Touch. Feel around. Use your fingers and make your partner tingle. It’ll make the experience that much more satisfying.

Frenulum fun. If you’re going to blow a guy, it won’t hurt knowing a bit about the anatomy of his penis. One such place you should look out for his frenulum. It’s that part just below the head of his penis on the underside of his shaft. It feels good there. So… he’ll love it if you focus your attention on it.

Ballin’. Going down on a guy isn’t just about wrapping your mouth around his c*ck. It’s about serving his entire package. Which includes his balls. So, if you’re neglecting his balls, then you are not successfully performing the job sufficiently. Sorry.

The other hole. Too many people overlook the other hole when they’re going down on someone, whether that someone is a woman or a man. What hole, you ask? Why, the butthole! There are plenty of nerves in that area that your partner will be more than happy that you didn’t leave it neglected.

Body moving. Giving head isn’t just about bobbing your head around. You need to get into it, and that’s what way too many people overlook. It’s an intimate moment, so it should be treated intimately. Putting your whole self into the act brings the experience to the level it ought to be at.

Clitoris. This probably isn’t the first time you’ve heard that you need to focus on her clitoris if you want her to get the most out of this session. So, focus on it. If you ignore it, or seem like you don’t know where it is, then you’re just forcing her to miss out on what could’ve been a wonderful time.

Listen. Even if your partner is necessarily talking, they can still communicate with you while you’re going down on them. So, listen. How, you ask? Their body movement says a lot, and so does their moaning. You just need to interpret it correctly.

Attention. It may not sound like such a big deal, but making your partner feel as though you’ve never had more fun than you are in that very moment is vital. Getting head, as good as it can feel, can be intimidating. People can feel exposed and even self-conscious. So remind them how much you love what you’re doing as often as possible and as creatively as you can.

Start slow. There’s no reason to rush your way into oral. Build up to an aggressive session, if that’s the particular route you want to go, but don’t force it right away. Give your partner something to look forward to.

Easy does it. Unless your partner wants you to be rough, don’t be rough. If you want to be rough, ask first. The genitals are sensitive. That should go without saying. So if you want to show off your teeth, work that mouth of yours first and ask. Don’t freak them out. It’s not cute.

Kissing. The beauty of kissing is too often overlooked. It’s so run-of-the-mill, that people tend to forget just how intimate and amazing it really is. But in between going down on someone, move around their body and kiss them. Doesn’t even have to be on the lips. Just kiss them. It matters.

Pre-ejaculate. Not everyone is into swallowing. That’s fair. It’s understandable. However, swallowing a guy’s pre-ejaculate is a fair enough exchange (if you care enough to meet in the middle in the first place). The sight of you licking up his precum will excite him more than you know.

Afterwards. Orgasming is messy business (especially for guys), so you need to keep that in mind. There is no rule stating that you need to swallow his load, but if you’re hosting, then maybe help him out with some tissues? Once he stands up, it’s going to run down his belly and down his legs, and that’s never fun. If you busted semen all over your stomach, trust that he would do the same for you.

Follow your gut. If you think you’re not doing the best job, then you’re probably not. Your instinct knows, so listen to it. On that same note, however, oral is oral. If your partner is complaining, then they don’t deserve your mouth on their crotch. Simple as that.