Communication. General communication is key for couples, but communication in the bedroom is also important. That's why being loud during sex is a good thing! Letting your partner know that you're enjoying the experience will make you both enjoy it more.
Turn-on. It's a turn-on for guys when you show how much pleasure he's giving you. It's also a turn-on for women to be able to be as expressive about their sexuality as they can be. The bedroom isn't a place you want to hold back, so don't!
Carefree. When you don't have to worry about volume control, all you have to focus on is the pleasure of the act itself. Being loud is a way of letting yourself go and letting loose. The last thing you want to be when you're having sex is stressed.
Senses. Touch is just one of the five senses. Touching is obviously a huge factor during sex, but sound is important, too. Just like an awkward sound can kill the sexy vibe, a sexy sound can make it that much better.
Happy. Being expressive and happier in the bedroom can make you more expressive and happier outside the bedroom, too. That passion doesn't just stay hidden between the sheets. If you feel comfortable enough to be loud during sex with your partner, that comfort will translate into everyday life.
Quiet. Loud sex is fun and awesome, but that doesn't mean that if she's quiet she's not enjoying it. Of course, that might be a possibility, but she might just be quiet because she's focusing so much on the pleasure that she can't speak.
Public health. Back in March, the Swedish Health Minister Gabriel Wikstrom replied to a complaint that a citizen tweeted about his neighbors' loud sex night. Instead of commiserating with the tweeter, Wikstrom said, "Sounds nice for them, I think. Good for their wellbeing and thus public health as well."
Not so good. Being vocal during sex is also a good way of letting your partner know if something doesn't feel so great. If a move he's trying isn't working for you, or even hurts, you've got to let him know.
Terminology. There is actually a psychological term for being loud during sex. It's called "copulatory vocalization" and it's all about being sexually communicative. Science wants you to be loud, folks!
Faking it. Remember, while being loud can be the ultimate compliment, sometimes it can be disingenuous. If she's being uncharacteristically loud, she probably isn't being sincere about her orgasm.
Orgasm. Not only will being loud be a turn-on, but it will probably help your partner orgasm, too. Yup, it's that enjoyable that it helps him climax. When it comes down to it, he wants to know he can please you.
Time's up. Sometimes women use their volume as a way to let their partner know that they're ready for him to finish. If you've been at it for a while and things are escalating, she might be getting louder because she's trying to tell you it's OK for you to finish, so to speak.
Trust. If you feel comfortable enough to be as loud as you can be with your partner, it probably means that you trust each other. That trust is necessary to have in and out of the bedroom, and will only make your relationship better.
Teaching. Use your volume as a way of teaching your partner what you like. When he does something right, turn up the volume so he knows and will hopefully do more of it in the future. If he's doing something that you don't really care for, turn the volume down. Hopefully he'll get the hint.
Active. Being loud is a way for the woman to be active during sex even if she's not doing most of the heavy lifting. Your decibel level shows your level of participation and interest as much as it does your level of pleasure.
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