Angry sex is a good way to keep the spark alive in your relationship. Guys often need to be desired in order to keep interested in their wives. By using angry sex as a way to meet your needs, they feel desired and you get a happier, more willing to work husband.
It’s also a more positive way of handling rage. If you’re feeling angry, resentful, or upset, it’s really easy to want to take it out on your kids, your husband, or innocent female friends. Angry sex allows you to let off steam without hurting others…or yourself.
It’s empowering. Being a mom in today’s world is not easy - it’s disenfranchising. Having that angry, forceful sex is a good way to make sure you feel like you’re on top, in charge, and powerful. Trust us when we say this can help you feel good.
Angry sex allows you to forget about what was actually annoying you during the day. Sex is, in many ways, a lot like a drug. It can be an escape. It can allow you to focus yourself on getting pleasure for your body - rather than focusing on Timmy’s flunked math test and Jimmy’s busted car.
It may also remind your hubby that you’re upset. Guys don’t usually register when their spouses are seriously angry with them, especially if they are the type to ignore their wives while watching TV. Sex is very hard to ignore, and may give them a better idea of how you’re feeling.
Angry sex is also super hot. Let’s just be honest for a moment. There’s something incredibly hot about having rough, insanely passionate sex. It lets you go primal, and when you’re able to let loose like that, it means that you also allow yourself to let loose via orgasm.
The afterglow of angry sex can actually be really intimate. Remember how you wanted to be cuddled and loved by your husband? After a bout of angry sex, guys often will end up getting cuddly and snuggly with you. So, you do get the love you need.
Once you have all that rage let out, you will likely feel refreshed. Believe it or not, scientists say that having very passionate sex can be more energizing than drinking a cup of coffee. If you’re feeling low energy, this may be the better way to get your blood pumping without a shot of caffeine.
There’s also the fact that sex is a known mood elevator. If you were just having a foul mood because you just woke up on the wrong side of the bed that day, having angry sex can improve your demeanor. Why? Because it releases endorphins and also increases your connectedness to your partner.
Great sex might also remind YOU why you’re with your husband. If he’s particularly awesome in bed, a round of angry sex can help you remember how great your husband is…at least, in one department. And, that “gentle reminder” may help you realize that you don’t want to leave him if things are really bad.
If your husband was withdrawing from household chores as a result of not feeling like he’s being paid attention to, this can help fix things. And, it may help him realize that you have needs too. Guys do love and need sex, you know what we mean?
Sex of any kind, including angry sex, also can make you feel sexier and more desired. Are you feeling unattractive compared to the other moms in your clique? Are you feeling like you just don’t look as good as you used to? Having a good bout of sex can help that.
Then, there’s also the fact that angry sex can make you feel like a woman in times when people tend to forget you’re a sexual being. This is just something that happens way too often with moms of all ages. If you are dealing with that “nonperson” feeling, then you may need to have some angry sex and unleash your inner goddess.
There’s also the “clear head” feeling that you get after angry sex. Sometimes, our rage will end up getting the better of our judgments. If you find yourself thinking of doing things that are totally insane, angry sex can help you avoid major lapses in judgement.
Besides, it’s fun. Rough, angry sex is fun. It’s passionate. And it has a lot of perks - especially for moms who are looking to just cut loose. Do you enjoy angry sex? Tell us your thoughts in the comments below.
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