The Key To More Intense Orgasms: Edging

Getting the most out of your bedroom activities is always something we talk about, but there have been very few methods out there that have been proven to prolong orgasms, improve your muscle tone down there, and also deliver more powerful orgasms time after time. One of the oldest tricks in the book is edging - and it’s surprisingly easy to do. In fact, you might have even been doing it without actually realizing it. Want to get a better climax every time? Try edging on for size…

Edging is all about getting the most out of sex, every time. With many people, once they climax, sex is done. They are then out of commission. Kaput. And, it can take a while to recover. If you orgasm quickly, this can lead to your partner feeling very frustrated. Edging can take the edge off of things there.

With edging, you work on keeping yourself as close to orgasm as possible without actually crossing the line. So, if you’re orgasming, this means that you’d start taking a break before you climax. If you’re having sex, this means that you’d suddenly pause so that you stop feeling the urge to blow.

If your partner is male, you can actually edge him by holding the base of his penis tightly as he’s about to orgasm. This can actually block him from orgasming, and in turn makes it easier for him to last longer. Once he does climax, he’ll usually have a longer, stronger, and more memorable orgasm.

Edging is also cool because you can do it to both yourself and your partner. This actually is one of the few sexual pleasure techniques that can be done solo or with a partner. It’s all about control and further understanding your body or your partner’s body. As a result, even virgins may have practiced edging.

If you decide to edge your partner, it can make them go a bit crazy. Edging a partner makes them get aroused. It makes them want to orgasm more. It also makes their orgasms much harder and stronger than they would be without incorporating edging. For some sex acts, it can also improve their stamina over the long-term.

Unlike other pleasure techniques, edging can be done with just about every sex act. It can be done with regular sex, oral sex, anal sex, and masturbation. Basically, any time that you can give your partner an orgasm, you can incorporate edging into your playtime. This makes it a very versatile trick to do.

Here’s the thing about edging to remember… Edging can cause people to gain a lot more stamina than most other sex techniques. This can be good or bad, depending on what you and your partner want to see happen. If you get too into edging, you may need to actually take a break to get to a normal stamina level.

That being said, there’s both a mental and physical aspect to edging. Physically, you can edge a person by pleasuring them and then quickly pulling away when they’re about to climax. Mentally, edging can add pleasure by introducing an element of control and dominance to your sex play.

Edging’s control aspect makes it very popular in BDSM. After all, it does allow you to control your partner’s orgasm. It’s why many BDSM couples tend to work edging into humiliation play or just straight up turn it into orgasm denial. It makes for a very sexually charged “scene.”

For doms, edging is a good way to feel control. It’s hot to think of your partner helpless and begging for an orgasm if you’re a dominant person in bed. Meanwhile, many submissives love the idea of being humiliated or forced to beg for an orgasm, which makes edging pleasurable for them, too.

Want to edge? Here’s a good way to really get it on quickly. Start with teasing - lots of it. Work in a full body massage. Make sure to tell your partner that you want to know when they’re about to cross the finish line, too. Then, slowly get them worked up with your teasing and foreplay until they’re about to climax.

When they’re about to climax, pull back. Pull back just enough to keep them on edge. Make them want it, ask for it, and beg for it. If you want to prolong it even more, just pull away until they’re no longer on edge, then start all over again. After 2 to 3 rounds, their orgasm will be explosive.

You need to engage all your senses too. You need to pay attention to your partner’s breath, spasms, and even the way their skin flushes. You also need to use your senses to figure out what’s really getting them turned on when you stimulate them. This helps you keep control on their ability to orgasm and also keeps them from lying so they can climax.

Once you let your partner (or yourself) cross the finish line… Keep stimulating them. Edging allows you to have an orgasm for longer periods of time, which means that this can easily make their orgasm be one of the best they’ve had. Use this technique wisely, and you’ll be legendary in bed.

Most people, whether they realize it or not, have edged before. It’s not that uncommon. Have you ever tried edging solo or with a partner? Tell us about your experiences and tips in the comments below.