5 Subtly Brilliant Ways To Make Your Wife Want Sex 1,000X MORE

How to make her sex drive even stronger than yours!

Does your woman have a lower sex drive than you? Are you always the one who initiates sex, only to get turned down virtually every time? Do you want to know how to turn it around and make her sex drive stronger than yours?

Look, stress, age and medical factors can all cause a loss of libido in women but no matter what the case, you can make her sex drive a lot stronger.

Here are 5 simple tips you can use to start boosting your woman's libido and make her chase you for sex:

1. Stop being "nice" in bed

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A lot of guys think that being nice in bed is the way to make women come. Obviously, I’m not suggesting that you act like a jerk in bed. What I am suggesting is that you act like a man who is turned on and wants his woman.

It turns her on to know that she’s turning you on, so much that you’re barely able to control yourself.

Now think about this… If she’s turning you on so much that you’re barely able to control yourself, would you act timid and gentle? Would you be passive and wait for her to tell you what she wants?

Hell no!

You’d grab her, throw her on the bed (without hurting her of course) and give it to her hard! When we act "nice" in bed, we repress our arousal and act "appropriate".

It butchers her attraction and makes her feel like she doesn’t turn you on. Set your arousal free and let her feel what it’s like to be with a MAN.

2. Don't wait 'til you're in bed to make her FEEL sexy and wanted 

When you go to a restaurant, you get appetizers; they’re small, delicious and they leave you wanting more.

Make her crave more of you at random times with small, delicious sexual appetizers. Grab her, pin her against the wall and give her a deep, passionate kiss. Then walk away and go on about your day.

If she’s sitting down, walk up behind her. Run your hands through her hair. Pull her hair back to expose her neck and kiss it for a minute or two.

Make her FEEL sexy and wanted all the time. Not just when you want some.

3. Stop trying to make her come

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If you’re focused on giving her an orgasm, you’re not enjoying the moment and she knows it.

She can feel you focusing on her orgasm and because she wants to please you, she’s going place her attention on trying to have one too. But this makes it virtually impossible. Orgasm is a by product of pleasure, so focus on her pleasure and the orgasms will follow.

Stop focusing on the destination. Enjoy the ride and before you know it, you get there.

4. Give her something new 

It’s easy to get stuck in a routine, especially when we find something that works. But women crave a variety of sexual experiences and if you’re not giving them to her, she will get bored.

You might think that changing positions a few times or varying the speed of your thrusting is "mixing it up"… it’s not.

Sometimes your girl wants to be ravenously dominated. Sometimes she wants to take control. Sometimes she wants to make sweet, passionate love and sometimes she wants to get 50 shades of hella kinky.

Make a bedroom bucket list together and take turns crossing each item off the list. One week it’s one of her fantasies and the next it’s yours.

Here’s the key: DO NOT judge her for any fantasy she shares with you. EVER! If you do, she will never open herself sexually to you again and she’ll always repress her true sexuality.

And don’t be afraid to let her in on your dirtiest desires. Even if she’s disgusted by some of them, the fact that you’re sharing them with her will make her more comfortable sharing with you.

5. Make her come more

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A lot of guys can’t handle hearing this but because you’ve read this far, I know you can.

How much your woman craves sex is in direct proportion to how often you make her come. Think about it. Women can have many different types of orgasms. They can have multiple orgasms in a single session.

They can have light, playful orgasms that make her giggle and squeal and she can have deep, INTENSE orgasms that send powerful, pulsating waves of pleasure through her entire body while she’s left wondering what way is up.

The female body is able to have A LOT more sexual pleasure than ours. When you’re one of the rare guys who knows how to give it to her… she wants it ALL THE TIME!

So learn how to give her many different types of orgasms and her sex drive will skyrocket!

If You Give A Blowjob Like THIS, He'll Never Leave You

How to blow his mind - and his, um ...

First, you have to get down there. You have two options: the quick way and the slow way. The quick way was the beginning of one of the best blowjobs I've ever given.

Basically, you drop to your knees, open your mouth, and open his pants. This works well because men like surprises, and men like women on their knees. This usually takes place standing. But here are eight steps to the best blowjob ever.

1. Start by kissing him.

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But if your guy is laying down, you've really got only one choice: the slow way. Start at his mouth. Kiss him, using a lot of tongue. Move your mouth down to his chin, then his neck, lick and kiss on his chest, then move over to his hands.

2. Lick and suck his fingers.

Put them all the way into your mouth, suck hard, then let the suction go so his fingers slide out (you're going to be doing this move a lot). Repeat until he's moaning. Then move back to his torso and kiss slowly down to his groin. Lick and kiss on his pubis and thighs.

3. Give him a hickey on his thighs.

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Yes, you're going to be in the midst of pubes. Deal with it. Lick until you're at the base of his shaft, then move away. But don't go for the shaft yet.

4. Pay close attention to his balls.

While you're licking around it, cup his balls in your hands. Tug them very very gently, holding his full sack in your hand. Pet them. Then move your mouth down and start licking them. Lick his balls firmly until they're wet with spit. Only then should you move up to the goal: his shaft.

5. Slowly move your tongue to his penis.

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Do it quickly, suddenly, and fast. Don't make the mistake of kissing around his head. Instead, treat him to a deep throat. If you don't know how to do this, you open the back of your throat so the head of his penis is past your tonsils.

Stay still for a moment. This will drive him crazy. Then purse your lips and slowly slide upwards. Replace your mouth with your hand. Hold his balls in your hand and play with them gently. With your other hand, hold the shaft of his penis. Make sure it's well-lubricated with spit.

Start licking the head of his penis. Use gentle, soft pressure to lap at the sides, and finally the bottom, which tends to be the most erogenous zone. Jerk him gently while you lick hard at the bottom of the head of his cock. This will drive him crazy.

Keep licking. Hold his penis up and, from the bottom of the head, lick down over his shaft. Keeping your hand on the shaft to hold it steady, lick up and down like you were licking a popsicle. Move from the bottom of his shaft to the sides and top. Use this as a chance to get his shaft lubed up and spit-covered. You're going to need it.

6. Shift your focus to just the head.

Take a break and suck on the head of his penis — not his shaft, just the head. Suck hard. Lick while it's in your mouth, then suck hard again. Swirl the head around in your mouth, licking as you go. Alternate the sucking, licking, and swirling for a while, all the time holding his shaft steady, and keeping a hand on his balls. Are you still petting them? You should be.

When you suck, start moving a little bit down his shaft. Then lick and swirl some more. Again, suck and move even farther down the shaft. Work it this way so that, eventually, you're alternating deep-throating with licking and sucking the head of his penis.

7. Finally, abandon the licking and swirling, and just bob up and down.

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Suck hard and put pressure on his shaft with your lips as you move up and down. If you can't deep-throat — and some women can't or won't — there's a solution: You can suck down the length of his shaft as far as you're comfortable, then hold your hand around his shaft in a fist. While you suck, jerk him up and down. He's well-lubricated because of your attentions, so your hand slides right over his penis.

This is honestly the best long-term solution. If your guy is having trouble coming — and most guys will have come from your deep-throating — you can do the jerk-off cheat to give yourself more energy and pace yourself. At some point, if you're doing this right, he's going to come.

8. Swallow, never spit.

A wise man once told me that spitting is like going to someone's house and not eating dinner. For some reason, it's very, very, very important to guys that you swallow. So we're going to go with that. As he starts to come, reach back behind his balls and press on his perineum, which is full of crazy nerve end